1:1 Sessions With Coby

Deep Healing in Sacred Partnership

Individual sessions tailored to your unique needs and nervous system

When you're ready to go deeper than what group work can offer, these one-on-one sessions create a container for your system to unwind, release, and remember its natural capacity for healing. Each session is collaborative - we follow what your body and spirit are asking for.

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Offerrings

  • Trauma resolution and nervous system regulation

    What it is: Using the Somatic Experiencing method, we track sensations, emotions, and movement impulses to help your nervous system complete interrupted responses and discharge stored trauma.

    This is for you if:

    • You feel stuck in fight/flight or shutdown patterns

    • Your body holds tension that talk therapy hasn't reached

    • You experience anxiety, panic, or hypervigilance

    • You have unexplained physical symptoms

    • You're ready to work directly with your nervous system

    Session length: 60 minutes
    Suggested rate: $150-180
    Suggested commitment: Weekly sessions for 3-6 months minimum - nervous system regulation requires consistency and time to establish new patterns

  • Hands-on healing for nervous system regulation

    What it is: Gentle, trauma-informed bodywork that supports your nervous system's natural healing capacity. Combines massage, craniosacral therapy, and somatic awareness.

    This is for you if:

    • You crave healing touch in a safe container

    • You experience chronic pain or tension

    • You want to rebuild trust with your body

    • You're recovering from medical trauma or procedures

    • You need nervous system support through touch

    Session length: 90 minutes
    Suggested rate: $140-170
    Suggested commitment: Bi-weekly sessions for 2-3 months initially - bodywork builds trust and healing over time

  • Somatic and mentorship work for ages 12-25

    What it is: Age-appropriate somatic work, life skills mentoring, and support navigating the unique challenges of adolescence and young adulthood. Sessions may include outdoor time, creative expression, and building nervous system resilience.

    This is for you (or your young person) if:

    • Struggling with anxiety, depression, or emotional regulation

    • Navigating identity questions or life direction

    • Dealing with social pressures or school stress

    • Needing mentorship from someone who understands both personal and social justice

    • Wanting support that goes beyond traditional talk therapy

    • Seeking a non-pathologizing approach to mental health

    Session length: 60-75 minutes
    Suggested rate: $120-150
    Suggested commitment: Bi-weekly sessions for 4-6 months - young people need time to build trust and see meaningful change

  • Gentle, play-based nervous system support for ages 5-12

    What it is: Trauma-informed work with children using play, movement, creativity, and gentle somatic practices. Sessions often include outdoor time and activities that help children reconnect with their natural resilience.

    This is for your child if:

    • Experiencing big emotions or behavioral challenges

    • Dealing with trauma, loss, or major life transitions

    • Struggling with anxiety, sleep issues, or attention difficulties

    • Needing support that honors their natural wisdom

    • You want an approach that strengthens rather than pathologizes

    Parent/caregiver involvement and consultation included

    Session length: 45-60 minutes
    Suggested rate: $100-130
    Suggested commitment: Weekly sessions for 2-4 months - children respond quickly but need consistent support to integrate changes

  • Ceremony for life transitions and spiritual support

    What it is: Individual ritual work for thresholds, rites of passage, or spiritual questions. May include divination, ceremony design, or preparation for significant life transitions.

    This is for you if:

    • You're navigating a major life transition

    • You want ceremonial support for a threshold

    • You're seeking spiritual guidance or divination

    • You need help designing personal ritual practices

    • You feel called to deeper spiritual connection

    Session length: 2 hours
    Suggested rate: $200-250
    Suggested commitment: 1-3 sessions spaced over several months - timing depends on the specific transition or spiritual work

  • Somatic work in connection with the natural world

    What it is: Sessions conducted while walking or sitting on the land, combining somatic practices with connection to plants, trees, and natural rhythms.

    This is for you if:

    • You feel most centered in nature

    • You're seeking to repair your relationship with the natural world

    • You want to incorporate earth-based wisdom into your healing

    • You feel called to work with plant or land spirits

    • Traditional indoor therapy feels too contained

    Session length: 2-3 hours
    Suggested rate: $180-220
    Suggested commitment: Monthly sessions through at least one full seasonal cycle (3-4 months) - deepening relationship with land happens over time

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Booking a session

  • The best way is through our free 20-minute consultation where we can explore what your system is calling for. I'll ask about what you're experiencing, what you've tried before, and what feels most alive or curious for you right now. Your body and intuition often know what type of healing container would serve you best. If you're drawn to multiple approaches, that might be a sign that the Integrated Path option would better serve your needs.

  • Sessions take place at my serene land in West County, near the town of Occidental. The space is designed to support deep healing work, surrounded by redwoods, oak trees, and natural beauty. For land-based sessions, we'll walk various hiking spots in West County or sit in specific spots that call to us. The setting itself becomes part of the healing container.

  • Yes, I offer sliding scale pricing for a limited number of spots each month. This is for those experiencing genuine financial hardship who are committed to the work. Please mention your need for sliding scale during our consultation so we can discuss what's sustainable for both of us.

  • Absolutely. Many clients benefit from combining approaches - perhaps starting with somatic work and later incorporating ritual or land connection. However, if you're interested in having fluid access to all of my modalities, consider the Integrated Path option. This custom blend gives you access to my full range of abilities for one investment, allowing us to weave together whatever your healing journey calls for.

  • Individual session rates range from $100-250 depending on the type and length of session. Please see the specific rates listed above for each modality.

  • Healing happens in layers and often in ways that aren't immediately obvious. You might notice better sleep, less reactivity to triggers, increased capacity to feel joy, or a sense of coming home to yourself. Some changes are dramatic and immediate, others are subtle shifts that accumulate over time. We'll check in regularly about what you're noticing, and I'll share observations about changes in your nervous system and energy. Trust your own sense of what feels different - your system knows when healing is happening.

Ready to begin or have questions about which approach might serve you best?

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“Trauma is not what happens to us, but what we hold inside in the absence of an empathetic witness.”

—PETER LEVINE

The
Integrated Path

For healing that goes deeper than any single modality — co-create with me your unique path with access to all modalities within one adaptive container.

Beyond A Singular Modality

While choosing a singular modality can serve specific needs, some healing journeys benefit from the full breadth of what's possible. This is for those ready to work at the intersection of somatics, spirit, land, and ancestry - with the flexibility to call upon different modalities as your system guides.

What It Includes

  • Somatic Experiencing sessions

  • Bodywork and craniosacral therapy

  • Ritual design and ceremony

  • Land-based healing walks

  • Divination and ancestral guidance

  • Grief work and threshold support

  • Justice-informed healing practices

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This Might Be For You If…

You've done talk therapy and while it helped, you know there's more. Your body still holds tension that words can't reach. You find yourself repeating patterns you swore you'd break. Your nervous system feels stuck in old responses even when your mind understands what happened.

You might be dealing with:

  • Chronic pain or illness that doctors can't fully explain

  • Repeating relationship dynamics despite your best efforts to change

  • Ancestral patterns you can feel but can't name - the same struggles your parents and grandparents faced

  • Grief that feels bigger than the specific loss - like you're mourning something ancient

  • A sense of disconnection from your body, the land, or your own intuition

  • Trauma responses that therapy helped you understand but your nervous system still carries

  • Spiritual hunger that traditional counseling doesn't address

  • Feeling called to something larger but unable to access it through conventional healing

You sense that your healing needs to happen at multiple levels - not just mental and emotional, but somatic, spiritual, and ancestral. You're ready for an approach that honors the complexity of what you're carrying and doesn't try to fit your healing into neat categories.

You know that real transformation takes time and you're willing to invest in a process that meets you where you are while supporting where you're going.

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    Coby is a delight.

    Our sessions are founded on his unique ability to co-regulate. I find myself making huge, honest, and expansive shifts when we are together simply because he can hold our nervous systems in harmony. We talk a little, feel into the body a lot, and sync our systems with the birds, trees and other creatures near us. It has been healing to feel in my body that there is another way beyond the constant bracing, clenching and constriction. He has shown me on a visceral level new ways of being that feel liberating and easeful.

    KATE E.

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    Old and deep holdings have found their way to the surface, been witnessed, held, shifted, and often released.

    Somatic work with Coby has been incredibly effective, much more than the many years of talk therapy that I did prior to Coby. I feel more grounded, clear on my boundaries, and am more aware of what activates my parasympathetic nervous system more than at any other point in my 56 years. Coby has this way about him; gently and respectfully creating a space where my mind, heart, and body imperceptibly know it’s safe to be vulnerable.

    — ANGELA C

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    It has been one of the most significant years of my life.

    The healing that I am undergoing is far beyond anything I have experienced in the past, and it has also greatly supported my spiritual practice. My depression has greatly lifted (which is more amazing than I can put into words), and my anxiety is starting to make some headway. Coby has a way of making me feel safe and allowing me to feel more deeply and to be open with what I am feeling. He is the most caring and open health care provider I have ever been to. My wife praises the day I found him.

    — RICK B.

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    I feel like I come back home to myself.

    He has a way of reflecting my true self back to me so that I can find my own ground and remember my roots — my inherent connectedness to the greater web of life. He is able to hold all the details and sort through them in a way that sheds light on the heart of the matter while also illuminating a clear path forward, free of the clutter that my mind so often adds to things. I also feel like our work together is informed by Coby's deep connections to Ancestral and Natural worlds such that it becomes apparent each session that my healing is also the healing of my lineage which is amazing. I am so grateful for the opportunity to work with Coby and have him as an ally on my journey.

    — EMILY K.

This deeper level of partnership requires both greater investment and mutual commitment to the process. We'll design containers of 6 or 12 months that honor both the depth of this work and the time transformation needs.

$1000 per month

Investment + Commitment

Before creating your own unique Integrated Path, we first connect to talk about your goals and current challenges, making sure I am the right person to support you on your journey.

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Ready to Begin?

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Free 20- Minute Consultation

Let's explore if this work is right for you — and which modalities and offerings might serve you best as a starting point.

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Questions about my approach?

Read more about my training, methodology, mentors, and practice.

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