Reclaiming the Sacred Masculine Through Grief Work

Ongoing monthly gatherings to break cycles of emotional isolation and create new models of masculine community

WHAT WE DO

Men have been taught that grief is weakness, that tears are shameful, that emotional expression is "bad for business." But unexpressed grief becomes violence, anger, and disconnection. This ongoing circle creates sacred space for men to reclaim their full emotional range and heal the wounds that patriarchy inflicts on all of us.

We gather monthly to explore grief in all its forms - personal losses, ancestral patterns, collective trauma, and the unnamed sorrows we carry in our bones. Through ritual, somatic practices, and witnessing each other's stories, we're reimagining what masculine community can look like when we stop performing strength and start embodying wholeness.

This Circle Is For You If:

• You're ready to feel your feelings without apology

• You want to break generational patterns of emotional numbness

• You're seeking authentic connection with other men

• You're tired of carrying grief alone

• You want to model emotional health for the young men in your life

• You're called to heal the intersection of masculinity and trauma

HOW WE GATHER

Monthly Evening Circles - Deep dive sessions combining education, somatic practices, and ritual container.

Each gathering weaves together grief work, ancestral healing, somatic awareness, and the creation of new masculine culture rooted in emotional intelligence and authentic connection.

Investment & Commitment

This work requires showing up consistently to build trust and create lasting change. We ask for a 6-month commitment to allow the container to deepen and the healing to integrate.

Monthly circles: $60-80 sliding scale

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This work is held by Coby and rotating guest facilitators, all trained in grief work and masculine healing. Limited to 12 participants to maintain intimacy and safety.

Turning Loss Into Love Through Sacred Witnessing

Regular ceremonial gatherings to honor what we've lost and compost our grief into connection

WHAT WE DO

Grief was never meant to be carried alone behind closed doors. It's meant to be witnessed, ritualized, and transformed in community. When we gather to honor our losses together - whether recent deaths, ancestral wounds, or the collective griefs of our times - we create sacred space for healing that benefits not just ourselves, but our communities and the living world.

These ceremonies are held in the traditional lineages taught by Sobonfu Somé, Malidoma Somé, and Martín Prechtel. We create containers of trust and safety where personal and collective grief can be witnessed, validated, and composted into the fertile soil of deeper connection and liberation.

This Ritual Is For You If:

• You're carrying a loss that feels too big to hold alone

• You want to honor grief as sacred rather than pathology

• You're seeking community that can hold the depth of human sorrow

• You feel called to ancestral or collective healing work

• You want to learn traditional approaches to grief and ritual

• You're ready to transform pain into connection

HOW WE GATHER

Seasonal Public Rituals - Quarterly ceremonies open to the broader community
Intimate Monthly Circles - Smaller ongoing groups for deeper work
Threshold Rituals - Special ceremonies for major life transitions and losses

Each gathering includes altar creation, traditional songs and rhythms, witnessing circles, and ceremonial practices that help move grief through our bodies and into healing for ourselves and our communities.

Investment & Participation

Public seasonal rituals: $40-60 sliding scale
Monthly grief circles: $50-70 sliding scale
Private threshold ceremonies: By arrangement

No one turned away for lack of funds. These rituals serve the community's healing and all sincere hearts are welcome.

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Rituals are held outdoors in sacred natural settings.

Stay tuned for upcoming courses.